Monday, July 18, 2011

Indian Marriage System

I could have completed this topic with just two words, It Sucks. But again, since I am a newbie and people should know that I also can write some blogs, I am gonna get in to the details. Why Why Why ? Why should a guy get married between 26-28 and a girl between 24-26? Who came up with this law. If I find one legal document or any ancient palm script about this rule then thats it. I am gonna hate that person. And moreover who preached this laws and rules to the parents, that too the parents of all generations. Seriously man, its so sad :( My parents started talking about marriage to me now, when I am 26. And I am actually a bit happy about this coz, one of my friend (a guy) mom started talking about his marriage when he was 23 :D and finally he is gonna get married now, when he is 27. But whats with this number ? 27, 28 and 29 ?!? I have told my parents strictly to not talk about marriage for next 3 years. Come on, I have just started living my own life the way I want it. And the threat from mom's side comes like a typical Indian drama, sentiment. We are getting old, we want to shape a life for you when we are happy and healthy. Argh, Amma, I am 26 and not 16, Do you think I have no idea about my future and I cant shape it for me :-/ Thats so rude !

And dad's will act like typical dad. Not say a word to me, but do all underground activities. My dad spoke to me about this once, and I told him my plans. He diddnt speak to me about this later but gives a key to mom :D Typical Typical ! Mom and dad also I can adjust sometimes but these neighbors, relatives, Paal kaarans and Paper kaarans are not in my control :( They speak about this daily yes DAILY to my mom, LOSERS. Just because if there is a extra girl coming, the Paal kaaran might get extra money, is accepted. But what about these maids and Paper kaarans ?!? Hello I am not gonna buy a extra paper or put less clothes for washing after marriage. And neighbor aunties ! Haiyo aunty, you dont even have a hot girl, then why you have to worry about my marriage ?!?

Conclusion, getting married after 30 is not a crime. I will anyways marry a educated girl, So she wont think I have disease or I am very old for marriage. And my parents think that I wont get a girl when I am old coz by that time all the girls would have been taken :D But I seriously doubt that coz girls are delaying their marriage as much as possible. So I see a change in Indian marriage system and I want to contribute to the change. Who is in to contribute ?

3 comments:

  1. What i find typical indian about this blog post is that you just assumed that the girl is going to come and live with you... that is one of the worst things about the indian marriage system. right next to dowry.

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  2. If a guy says yes to his parents to find a girl for him then I am very sure that there is another parents from the other side with a 'yes' from the girl. That means the girl is ready to go with a guy who is chosen by her parents. This is typical Indian marriage system and not MY assumption

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  3. cut the crap and go get married.. go! :D

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